This is more like the 21st Century...
This is more like the 21st Century...
( With all the discord world wide at present, I thought it would be good to revisit a previous post to help remember what we're dealing with here - not the outer conditions, but our attention!)
Many people are enjoying their lives more and more. Others are not. Why is this? There are many variations, but the common theme is attention. People who give their attention to what they appreciate (in Life) will see more of it and have more of it in their experience. Others give their attention to what they dislike (in Life) and they see more of it and have more of what they dislike in their experience.
The former, either consciously or not, practice creation - their experience is a result of their thinking. The latter, either consciously or not, react to a perceived external universe, and thus can only have a better experience if the external world changes. One is possible. One is impossible.
The adage "knowledge is power" is true. The contrary is also true - ignorance is weakness. Many people are enjoying their lives more and more as they better understand, and practice in their daily life, the Law of Attraction. Others, ignorant of the Law of Attraction, are still ruled by it. Their world is a confounding place of capricious forces resulting in constant struggle.
The universal Law of Attraction is the way the Universe manages. Similar frequencies cluster. Birds of a feather, flock together. It is self-evident. In a curious paradox, the Law demonstrates itself to those people who reject it. One who thinks "there is no such thing as a law of attraction" is, by Law, going to cluster similar thoughts and manifestations - more evidence that there is no such law. Like gravity, the Law of Attraction operates whether recognized or not. It is what it is and it does what it does. Working with the Law (like gravity) is "going with the flow" or the path of least resistance.
A popular practice utilizing the Law to create a more satisfying life is the "Complaint Free" concept. The exercise is to become more aware of complaining - thinking and spoken. One is often surprised at how much conversation is an exchange of complaints! Next, the challenge is to stop complaining. Now why on Earth would anyone do that? The squeaky wheel gets the grease, right?
Back to worldview. People complain when they see/experience something they do not like. In order to feel better, the object/situation has to be removed or eliminated. Someone or something has to do that. That will take energy and resources, which the person gives up to get rid of the object of complaint. Also known as struggle. Yet what is the result? More unpleasant conditions/situations are observed, which mean greater effort must be made to make the world pleasant so the observer can feel better about his/her life. This is a materialistic approach based on the premise that the universe/world is a separate physical structure. If you understand "people are a result of their environment" then you understand the materialistic approach. The Law of Attraction will insure that you experience this materialistic approach if that is your intent.
People who spend less mental energy observing what they do not desire to experience and giving attention to what they appreciate in Life will, by Law, have more of what they appreciate in their daily life. They will feel better and enjoy life more. It's the same Law, but two different applications. That's the difference between knowledge and ignorance. Ignorance isn't stupid, it's the absence of knowledge and one cannot know what one does not know. Ergo, those that get it, get it. Those that don't, can't.
The people who practice complaint-free notice the effects quickly. They become very sensitive to complaining. It is an unpleasant experience, one they do not wish to experience, and thus move their attention (and often physical self) away. This shift in attention often means new friends, changes in relationships - birds of a feather flock together. A person is not chained to a particular environment or condition. Note: The complaining/unhappy person will likely resent the complaint-free person. Crab-bucket effect.
Releasing old/established relationships/patterns is often described as "following your heart" or dreams. It is true. Only you know what is best for you. There are, of course, quite a number of materialists who know precisely what is good for you and will go to great lengths to "help you." They believe they will feel better once you act right, so to speak. You may choose to resist them, thus attracting (creating) more struggle, or you can direct your attention to what you wish to experience (appreciate) and supplant the struggle with desired experience.
"We inhabit a cosmos made real in part by our own observations…our observations influence the universe at the most fundamental levels.” Physicist John Wheeler (coined the phrase "Black Hole.) Observation = attention. Attention = thinking.
Author Eckert Tolle put it nicely: "Complaining is not to be confused with informing someone of a mistake or deficiency so that it can be put right. And to refrain from complaining doesn’t necessarily mean putting up with bad quality of behavior. There is no ego in telling the waiter your soup is cold and needs to be heated up – if you stick to the facts, which are always neutral.
'How dare you serve me cold soup!'. . . That’s complaining."
The Law of Attraction. Use it consciously. It's in play, regardless.
There is a lot of buzz in many quarters regarding a shift in human consciousness, specifically a raising of that frequency. Such an event has been long predicted and now, it seems, to actually be occurring. For some, a statement like “a shift in consciousness” is a woo-woo crystal up the nasal out-there nonsense. It’s not. The low tide of human consciousness for thousands of years is now rising.
A rising tide lifts all boats. Even those that don’t want to float.
That can be stressful and is the source of dis-satisfaction, dis-comfort, disturbed feelings and so on. Not “going with the flow” takes a lot of energy. Learning how to rise with the incoming tide is the shift, for many. It is possible, especially if we consider a few things.
Upon seeing someone (usually for the first time) it seems instinctive to immediately assess the person and notice everything that is “wrong” with him/her and counter with a solution of what he/she should do to correct the “wrong.” Sound familiar? That’s a focus on someone else and what that person needs to make you feel better, more comfortable. Now add to that response the same evaluation of everything encountered – that yard needs to be mowed, who chose that color of paint, what moron designed this parking lot, you need to lose about fifty pounds, what an idiot... It’s a long list - a long list of noticing (giving attention) to things, situations, and conditions you don’t like. Your attention to such guarantees that you will see more and more of the same. The Law of Attraction always says “yes!”
Observing so many people, places, situations and conditions that displease you results in, well, not very good feelings. And, a curious logic suggests that “of course I feel lousy, look at what I have to put up with? If only those people would get their act together, then I’d feel better.” If someone has “mortgaged” their happiness (feeling good) to the behavior of others, then feeling good “ain’t gonna happen” as they say. Some people work very hard and devote tremendous energy and resources to make others do what they “ought” to do. Heck, you could even spend a lifetime at it. And you won’t feel any better because that way you feel isn’t about what others are doing (or not doing) and so forth.
What’s happening here is not an instinctive assessment of everyone you meet and the situations you encounter. Instinct is an immediate reaction to something that comes from the most basic part of the brain – the reptilian brain It is a fight or flight preparation. That does happen.
Assessing what’s wrong about someone and what they need to do to correct it is not instinct. It is a habit. You can’t change your protective instinct for survival, fortunately. You can change a habit. Like instinct, a habit is unconscious, or automatic. You do something (including a manner of thinking) and you are not aware of it. That’s what a habit is – something you’ve established that you’ll do without having to give thought to it (a very clever method of freeing up your mind for other things!)
And those people who have the habit of assessing (a.k.a. taking inventory) of everyone around them probably came by it honestly. That is to say, there’s a good chance that as children they watched the adults around them do the same. Children are hard wired to learn. Regardless, right now, IF someone who makes snap judgments about people/situations around them wants to feel better, relief can come quickly. Habits can be changed. A habit that no longer works for you can be replaced by one that does.
And that, in the proverbial nutshell, is what this shift in consciousness is about – people are going to elevate (change) the way they perceive the world around them. If you wish to live a happier, more satisfying life, this shift will move you in that direction. But you must be willing to release old ways of thinking to allow a new manner of thought. It’s the classic definition of insanity – continuing to think/act/do in the same old manner but expecting different outcomes.
Take the habit of making snap judgments of people as an example. First, it takes an awareness that one is making snap judgments of people. Gaining that awareness is a major step – remember that a habit operates without awareness, but practicing real time awareness of what one is thinking will reveal the habit of thought. A desire to feel better is the reason to replace snap judgments with another thought-action. One method is to replace the “judgment of what is wrong” with a desire to see something good about the person, situation, or condition. This isn’t making up something, or pretending that something is present that is absent, not at all. It is a desire to see what is good. The desire becomes the mental action and, cueing the Law of Attraction, you will begin to notice pleasant things. They didn’t suddenly show up, just that the previous thinking was too focused on judging that it couldn’t notice the good. The circumstance or situation doesn’t change, what you are allowing to see is the change.That is a shift in consciousness. A personal shift that can become habituated such that the default thought in any moment is the desire to see the good, the pleasant, the uplifting, the positive and so on.
If you’ve ever entered a room (or situation) where everybody is angry, pissed off, or depressed, then you know what is meant by “atmosphere” when describing something. The atmosphere was gloomy and tended to smother whatever your disposition. Vice versa for entering a room filled with happy, joyous folks. You can’t help but feel good with them.
The shift now occurring on a global scale is an elevation of the “atmosphere.” The base line thinking is going up a notch (or more for some folks) to allow a greater perspective of Life and the planet. It’s a better perspective that will find more people feeling better about their lives and the lives of all.
It’s happening. Go with the flow and enjoy a better perspective. You can choose not too.
It’s the only month without a formal Holiday, and, August is H O T. Many folks this time of year begin their annual longing for September when, you know, Autumn officially arrives. The Equinox is a wonderful thing, but it doesn’t mean COOL, at least around here. Cool doesn’t arrive until mid-October.
Years ago I took note of the general aberrant behavior of otherwise sane folk towards the latter part of summer. The only variable was the unrelenting H O T, no Holidays, capricious and teasing rain, and more hot. Therefore such odd behavior was christened “August,” as in “She’s got a case of August,” or, “He’ll survive, it’s a case of August.” It does seem a coddiwomple, a nice term describing that you have no idea where you're going, but you sure as hell want to get out of August.
So, in order to assist in getting through August (especially August 2020), I hereby declare Sunday, August 23 to be universally recognized as THE Dog Day of August. Appropriate celebrations may include brats, hotdogs, any number of sausages, and whatever cool refreshments are handy. And, as a bonus, after The Dog Day, it’s only a hop and skip into Labor Day...which gives thought to Halloween...which gives thought to Thanksgiving...then Christmas, and, at last, the conclusion of 2020.